On a date you never show that finding your soulmate is foremost on your mind. You’re cool. He may think you have turned down several engagements. You sip – never slurp – your drink. Let him find out all about you, instead of the other way around. You are light and flirtatious. Your gestures are soft and feminine. All your movements are fluid and sexy, not awkward or self-conscious. you’ve been on many dates before: your a pro. That’s because you take care of yourself. You didn’t lie in bed depressed, eating cookies before the date. You took a bubble bath or went for a run and read my blog hahaha, – built up your mindset with positive thinking. I am a beautiful woman. I am enough. You don’t have to do anything more on the date than show up, because you are fab. He will either love you or not. It is not your fault if he doesn’t call again. You’re beautiful inside and out. Someone else will love you if he doesn’t. That should be your mindset ladies, non of this – something is wrong with me.
I have confidence and self worth, it is one of my forces as a woman.. I have always had confidence and self worth, I know I am lucky. Probably because of my upbringing, my Egyptian daddy told me I was a queen everyday. My nick name in my familie is Queenie haha – go figure.
I see a lot of woman that are very insecure, unhappy and confused. So let me give you some tips to get that power flowing from your veins. Confidence and self worth will help you on the dating scene, situations with your boyfriend, maybe he is being a dick and you don’t stand up for yourself. In your carrier – go get what you want, or standing up for yourself in a conflict with a friend. Being confident and having self worth is very important in all aspects of life.
Being a Creature unlike any other is a state of mind. You don’t have to be rich, beautiful or exceptionally smart to feel this way about yourself. And you don’t have to be born with this feeling either. It can be learned mastered and practiced. Being a creature unlike any other is really an attitude, a sense of confidence and radiance that sparkles from your head to your toe. It’s the way you smile (you light up a room), pause in between sentences (you don’t babble on and on of nervousness), listen (attentively, look but never stare), breathe slowly and stand straight, walk with you shoulders back. It doesn’t matter if you are not a beauty queen, that you never finished college, or that you don’t get invited to current events. YOU still think you are enough! You have more confidence than woman with MBAs or women with LOADS of money in the bank. you don’t grovel. Your not desperate or anxious. You don’t date men who don’t want you. If not him someone better you say. You don’t settle. You don’t use sex to make men love you. You don’t chase anyone, it could be a man or a friend that is acting stupid toward you. You are not cynical. You don’t go to pieces when a relationship doesn’t work out. instead you get a manicure and go out on a date or hang out with all you supportive fun friends. You’re an optimist. You brush away a tear so that it doesn’t smudge your make up and you move on! Of course that is not how you really feel all the time. But that is how you pretend you feel, until you actually feel that way, thinking negative thoughts will make you feel like crap, so forcing yourself to think positive will lift yourself up, you get my drift?.
Tomorrow I will write about Being A Creature Unlike Any Other On A Date 😉 Stay Ready!
Hey Boyz and Gals,
You all know I had a small part in the movie Rush a few years ago.
I never told anybody about this secret, because it is so personal, I don’t like to talk about my LOVE – life, in general.
I was lucky enough to meet and work with the gorgeous Chris Hemsworth you know from Thor and the Avengers. Tall, strong, and HOT. Chris is not only good looking but has a caring and sweet personality. I was very nervous and excited at the same time when I was introduced to him and the talented director Ron Howard. Meeting both of them was a dream come true, for a movie geek like me.
Anyway, Ron was directing me and he can be a bit tough when he talks to you. Chris was so sweet, – he told me Ron would not talk or direct me, if he didn’t like my acting or see potential in me. That made me feel better straight away, Chris and I had 3 -4 scenes together, but unfortunately only 1 scene was used in the movie, it is normal to make extra material for the movie, usually they cut off 1 or 2 hours, when they edit the whole thing in the end. Thank god my one scene was used or I would have been devastated – been telling all my friends.
Anyway Chris and I had a kissing scene and I was in heaven. 😀 I hoped we could re-play the scene over and over.. 🙂 but we didn’t lol..
After we finished filming, – Chris asked me if he should give me a ride, we where a few hours outside London filming at a old airport. He was staying at a hotel in central London, not far from my apartment in Mayfair. I was like yes please give me a ride that would be great.
I think you can all imagine how the day ended. We started dating in secret because of his pregnant wife. It was very difficult because he is a family guy and it all ended very dramatic. I saw him for 2 month, until his wife walked in on us – pure girl. I still feel really bad about the whole thing, but I couldn’t help myself – its Chris Hemsworth come on, who can resist him.
(April Fool LOL.. ) Everything is true but the last part, he didn’t drive me home and we didn’t have an affair. He offered to give me a ride actually. But I finished work many hours before him, so it never happened. Haha you fool :D..
All they ever lead to are a buddy, a “player” or a man just “passing through” on his way to the “real” love of his life. And you need to stop taking them… right now… if you want to inspire his affection and commitment.
You shine during a discussion and you have a lot in common. You impress a man and make him enjoy your company, but you may feel disappointed to learn that he feels no CHEMISTRY.
That’s because when you try to connect with a man through his mind, he doesn’t FEEL a thing!
Oh, he may “enjoy being with you,” but he just never gets TOUCHED by you in a deep, connected, emotional sense.
He never feels like he’s about to lose control of himself and fall in love.
Wrong Road #2: The Physical Road (BODY)
Despite what a lot of women think, men do not become attached through sex, even if it’s fabulous. We’ve all been sold on the idea that a woman who likes sex and is “good” in bed is ALL IMPORTANT to a man.
And it’s not. It’s just a small part of the whole picture for him.
All it DOES give you is a “sex buddy,” not a partner, not a boyfriend, not a husband. You’ll also end up with a broken heart because you’ll get attached and he won’t want anything “real” with you.
Wrong Road #3: The Spiritual Road (SPIRIT)
Women who value their spiritual beliefs and want to be with a man who SHARES their values and spiritual interest.
And it’s SO EASY to mistake the friendship that can grow between two people who worship in the same way, who care about the same things, for a passionate, emotional bond.
And yet, all that will get you – at best – is a deep friendship. He’ll tell everyone what a great woman you are, but he won’t be dreaming about you night after night or longing to hold you in his arms.
The Right Way To Inspire His Devotion: Connecting Through His Heart!
In order to connect with a man’s heart so he’ll feel compelled to be with you, worship and adore you the way you deserve, you have to feel YOUR own heart first. Once he feels your heart, he’ll open up his, creating a heart-to-heart connection that begins with expressing your feelings and being your most feminine, authentic self.
Most women buy into the lie that “men don’t like emotions.” But the truth is, a man LOVES emotions. He yearns for a woman who can help him feel his own feelings and therefore allow him to be himself. If you’re not in touch with your feelings, he won’t feel safe expressing his.
The trick is to learn exactly HOW to express your feelings – in words that will draw a man closer in an amazing way. The usual way we express our feelings comes out sounding either stifled, inauthentic or critical to a man, and does nothing to connect with his heart.
First date. Ideally the conversation should flow naturally, there are no awkward silences and both people leave with the urge to go on a second date. That is not always the case in real life. Nervousness, the lack of common interests or just the wrong conversations can ruin the atmosphere and the date completely .. 🙁 Some subjects should be avoided on a first date. It might seem very obvious – but lets take them once again! Then that will not be the reason, if your date fails.
Do I need to say more? this one is easy to figure out- so don’t talk about you X – Not good -Not bad. Nobody wants their new date to talk about the X so much it could seem like they are still in-love with her. often it is not fun to hear about – not even if the X was a bitch 😉
YOUR POLITICAL OPINION
Politics and religion are 2 subject’s that really can get the discussion flowing, that is not always bad – but on the first date it is the wrong time. It can make people upset and angry – so you might not get that second date with your dream girl 😉
Don’t act TOO full of yourself in a smart ASS kind of way, but have a humble self-confidence the vibrates from your personality, body-language, tone of voice and eye contact 😉 – confidence is key. Do not lie to make yourself seem more cool. You shouldn’t be a sorry excuse for a man – a BIG mumbling sorry kinda guy, who says all his flaws and embarrassing stories. Balance is Key 😉
If you like the girl and she likes you – Kiss her!! DON’T BE A CHICKEN 😉 – or she might forget about you quick, because you didn’t make her feel desirable.
Anyway there are no rule book, when it comes to dating and maybe you will meet the girl who shares your political opinions – then Go for it – No date is the same – with this info in your mind! DATE Away 😉 HAVE FUN!
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