The Desire For Attention

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We are more than our bodies, but that doesn’t mean we have to be a shamed of them or our sexuality.

As women we are accused of seeking attention more than men are, whether for speaking out politically, for dressing a certain way, or for even posting a selfie. Our culture has a double standard that runs so deep, many women have actually built up an automatic defense—attempting to be a step ahead of potential critics by making sure we have “real” reasons for anything we say or do.

Often it’s men propelling these acts of sexism, but women discount one another too: Think about how many times you’ve heard a woman say about another woman, “Oh, she’s just doing that for attention.” Our society tells women we can’t be, say, sexy and confident and opinionated about politics. This would allow us too much power. Instead our society asks us to declare and defend our motivations, which makes us second-guess them, all while men do what they please without question.

I see it all the time, particularly when my girlfriends are getting ready to go out. They encounter this moment when they think, I don’t want to look like I tried too hard. They don’t want to be seen as desperate or vain. But my guy friends don’t think twice about whether this shirt or that cologne will make them seem attention seeking. The truth is that both groups want to be noticed. Yet we view a man’s desire for attention as a natural instinct; with a woman, we label her a narcissist.

Look at pop culture: Mick Jagger is 73, and he still sometimes wears his shirt open and gyrates onstage. We understand that this is a part of his performance and artistic brand. Meanwhile, when Madonna, who is 58 and a revolutionary in that same kind of artistic sexuality, wears a sheer dress to the Met Gala, critics call her “a hot mess” who’s “desperate.” But isn’t she just making one of her signature political statements about female sexuality (and, incidentally, about our ageist, sexist culture too)? In any case, they are both performers who undoubtedly like attention. So why does Madonna get flak for it while Jagger is celebrated?

It’s absurd to think that desire for attention doesn’t drive both women and men. Why are women scrutinized for it more, then? And if a woman dresses up because she does want attention, male or otherwise, does that make her guilty of something? Or less “serious”? Our society doesn’t question men’s motivations for taking their shirt off, or shaving, or talking about politics—nor should it. Wanting attention is genderless. It’s human. 😉

My Jewelry with a 40 % discount

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Hello Ladies,

Do you like my jewelry ?

You can buy it on my web-shop, right now with a 40% discount weiiiiii!!!

You can buy these amazing rings for only 209 kr. and earrings for 179 kr. Go check out all the different designs click HERE There are 15 pages of jewelry to look at, all with the 40 % discount, so remember to turn the page if you don’t like the selection on the first few pages, there is so much awesome stuff. My favorite selection is on page 12 and 15.

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By the way the discount will end on Monday 15/8 – so don’t wait too long.

The quality is awesome and it feels so good on my skin, I LOVE it!

It could also be a good gift, if you wan’t to spoil your Bestie, mom or sister..

Spinning Jewelry is a stylish and modern jewelry brand. You can create your own unique look, it’s a danish design and I absolutely adore it. Feminine, fragile, classic with a hint of Sabrina lol 🙂

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Unfortunately delivery is only in Denmark sorry ;(

So All my danish chica’s enjoy! Get your jewelry on.. 😀 sparkle and bling your way to a sunny mood, cos its kinda cold right now in Denmark, but at-least I have some nice jewelry for you to wear, hopefully that will cheer you up.

Klinik 1 Class – 15 % of all wax treatments


  

Hello Ladies,

Do you want that smooth, sexy skin – soft and hair free 😉 ? Now you can get 15 pro-cent OFF all waxing treatments with PERNILLE click HERE  and choose the clinic at Frederiksberg, where she is working. Book an appointment online with PERNILLE and write Sabrina Ziyada in the comment area or mention my name when you arrive and meet Pernille – she will give you 15 % OFF ALL waxing treatments.

I go there to get waxed, they have the best Brazilian wax with sugaring, quick and almost completely pain free. Normal price 399 kr. with your 15 pro-cent OFF it will be 339 kr. – Remember to book with the employee Pernille or you will NOT get 15 pro-cent OFF the price. Besides sugaring you will get 15 % of ALL waxing treatments, so go to the website and see what you need HERE   (remember to book at the clinic – located at Frederiksberg)

ENJOY 😉

10 Tips – Flawless Facial Skin

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  1. Wash your face with very cold water every morning
  2. drink minimum 2 1/2 -3 liters of water everyday
  3. cleans your face morning and evening, use anti aging serums before you apply your facial creams
  4. once a week use a good rich oil – I apply Coconut oil and leave it on my face all night
  5. Use a day cream, night cream and eye cream – chose a brand that works well for your skin type – my favorite brand is Tresor Rare De Premier – it works wonders for my facial skin, I look so much younger when I use it.
  6. Women your face starts from your hair line and ends on your upper chest –  apply cream on neck and chest twice a day or you will get the undesirable neck and chest wrinkles
  7.  Eat healthy fruits and vegs every day
  8. Buy supplements for your skin. I take collagen tables everyday – the bran I use is called: Genacol 100 % Collagen. Collagen makes your skin firm and tight, so you won’t get a saggy face 😉
  9.  Don’t eat any sugar or gluten, your face and body will age before time 😉
  10. Be happy, think happy thoughts and be positive – a negative mind will affect your looks. Stress ages you.

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