On a date you never show that finding your soulmate is foremost on your mind. You’re cool. He may think you have turned down several engagements. You sip – never slurp – your drink. Let him find out all about you, instead of the other way around. You are light and flirtatious. Your gestures are soft and feminine. All your movements are fluid and sexy, not awkward or self-conscious. you’ve been on many dates before: your a pro. That’s because you take care of yourself. You didn’t lie in bed depressed, eating cookies before the date. You took a bubble bath or went for a run and read my blog hahaha, – built up your mindset with positive thinking. I am a beautiful woman. I am enough. You don’t have to do anything more on the date than show up, because you are fab. He will either love you or not. It is not your fault if he doesn’t call again. You’re beautiful inside and out. Someone else will love you if he doesn’t. That should be your mindset ladies, non of this – something is wrong with me.
I have confidence and self worth, it is one of my forces as a woman.. I have always had confidence and self worth, I know I am lucky. Probably because of my upbringing, my Egyptian daddy told me I was a queen everyday. My nick name in my familie is Queenie haha – go figure.
I see a lot of woman that are very insecure, unhappy and confused. So let me give you some tips to get that power flowing from your veins. Confidence and self worth will help you on the dating scene, situations with your boyfriend, maybe he is being a dick and you don’t stand up for yourself. In your carrier – go get what you want, or standing up for yourself in a conflict with a friend. Being confident and having self worth is very important in all aspects of life.
Being a Creature unlike any other is a state of mind. You don’t have to be rich, beautiful or exceptionally smart to feel this way about yourself. And you don’t have to be born with this feeling either. It can be learned mastered and practiced. Being a creature unlike any other is really an attitude, a sense of confidence and radiance that sparkles from your head to your toe. It’s the way you smile (you light up a room), pause in between sentences (you don’t babble on and on of nervousness), listen (attentively, look but never stare), breathe slowly and stand straight, walk with you shoulders back. It doesn’t matter if you are not a beauty queen, that you never finished college, or that you don’t get invited to current events. YOU still think you are enough! You have more confidence than woman with MBAs or women with LOADS of money in the bank. you don’t grovel. Your not desperate or anxious. You don’t date men who don’t want you. If not him someone better you say. You don’t settle. You don’t use sex to make men love you. You don’t chase anyone, it could be a man or a friend that is acting stupid toward you. You are not cynical. You don’t go to pieces when a relationship doesn’t work out. instead you get a manicure and go out on a date or hang out with all you supportive fun friends. You’re an optimist. You brush away a tear so that it doesn’t smudge your make up and you move on! Of course that is not how you really feel all the time. But that is how you pretend you feel, until you actually feel that way, thinking negative thoughts will make you feel like crap, so forcing yourself to think positive will lift yourself up, you get my drift?.
Tomorrow I will write about Being A Creature Unlike Any Other On A Date 😉 Stay Ready!
This is the most amazing view I have ever seen! and the most beautiful experience I ever had. High on life, or high on nature.
These pictures will not do you justice, GRAN CANYON is a MUST see when you go to Las Vegas 😉
I can’t even explain how beautiful the scenery was or the thrilling sensation I felt deep inside my soul. I was watching this AMAZING view from a helicopter.
We used a agency called Maverick. They are super good, out hotel recommended them. A cab drove us to a pick up point and we saw Hoover Damn, Gran Canyon and other beautiful scenery. When you fly, you will be wearing headphones listening to calming music and a guy will be telling you tourist stuff and facts.
I couldn’t sit still, while we where flying, I literally felt like I was Superman flying and watching this sensational beauty. I know it sounds dramatic. But it is true, I was swept away by natures beauty into some kind of dreamlike trance, I felt hypnotized by earth, beauty and positive vibes.
Unfortunately the helicopter only lands for 45 minutes, I wanted to stay a few hours. You get some refreshments and snacks before you fly back, the way back and forth is incredible.
It was a perfect day, a perfect tour and I got to experience this once in a life times experience with my best friend my DAD and my little blond partner in crime. It meant a lot to me, having my dad next to me. We will have this experience together forever.
What is the longest a person has ever lived for? Meet Li Ching Yuen, a man who lived an astonishing 256 years! And no, this is not a myth or a fictional tale.
According to a 1930 New York Times article, Wu Chung-chieh, a professor of the Chengdu University, discovered Imperial Chinese government records from 1827 congratulating Li Ching-Yuen on his 150th birthday, and further documents later congratulating him on his 200th birthday in 1877. In 1928, a New York Times correspondent wrote that many of the old men in Li’s neighborhood asserted that their grandfathers knew him when they were boys, and that he at that time was a grown man.
Li Ching Yuen reportedly began his herbalist career at the age of 10, where he gathered herbs in mountain ranges and learned of their potency for longevity. For almost 40 years, he survived on a diet of herbs such as lingzhi, goji berry, wild ginseng, he shoo wu and gotu kola and rice wine. In 1749, at the age of 71, he joined the Chinese armies as teacher of martial arts. Li was said to be a much-loved figure in his community, marrying 23 times and fathering over 200 children.
According to the generally accepted tales told in his province, Li was able to read and write as a child, and by his tenth birthday had traveled in Kansu, Shansi, Tibet, Annam, Siam and Manchuria gathering herbs. For the first hundred years he continued at this occupation. Then he switched to selling herbs gathered by others. He sold lingzhi, goji berry, wild ginseng, he shou wu and gotu kola along with other Chinese herbs, and lived off a diet of these herbs and rice wine.
HE WASN’T THE ONLY ONE
According to one of Li’s disciples, he had once encountered an even older 500-year-old man, who taught him Qigong exercises and dietary recommendations that would help him extend his lifespan to superhuman proportions. Apart from Qigong and a herb-rich diet, what else can we learn from this Master of Longevity?
How about this: On his death bed, Li famously said, “I have done all that I have to do in this world”. Could his peaceful last words also hint at one of the biggest secrets to a long and prosperous life? It’s interesting to note that in the West, we’re often taught to believe that aging is something that must be “beaten” with high tech infrared devices and state of the art medication.
HIS SECRET TO LONG HEALTH:
Li was asked what his secret was to longevity. This was his reply: “Keep a quiet heart, sit like a tortoise, walk sprightly like a pigeon and sleep like a dog.” These were the words of advice Li gave to Wu Pei-fu, the warlord, who took Li into his house to learn the secret of extremely long life.
Li maintained that inward calm and peace of mind combined with breathing techniques were the secrets to incredible longevity. Obviously, his diet would have played a large role. But its fascinating that the old living person in recorded history attributes his long life to his state of mind.
WHY IS THIS SO HARD TO BELIEVE?
With the average lifespan for the Western world currently sitting between 70-85 years, the thought of someone living over 100 years old seems like quite the stretch. The thought of someone living over 200 years old seems extremely suspicious. But why don’t we believe that people can live this long?
We have to keep in mind that some people in this world don’t live a grueling 9-5 lifestyle, they don’t have to deal with the stresses of debt, they aren’t breathing polluted city air, and they exercise regularly. They don’t eat refined sugars or flour, or any foods that have had pesticides sprayed on them. They aren’t living off of the standard American diet.
They aren’t eating fatty meats, sugary deserts, and genetically modified foods. No antibiotics. No alcohol and no tobacco. Their diets not only exclude junk foods that we so often indulge in, they also include superfoods and herbs which are like steroids for our organs and immune system.
They also spend their spare time in nature practicing breathing techniques and meditating which have been proven to improve mental, physical, and emotional health. They keep things simple, get proper sleep, and spend a great deal of time in nature under the sun. When we get a chance to relax in the sun, we feel instantly rejuvenated and call this a “vacation”. Imagine spending a lifetime doing that in the mountains, and combining that with perfect mental, spiritual, and physical well-being.
I do not doubt for a minute that if we all did the things we knew we were supposed to do, that living to be 100 years old would be commonplace. When we treat our bodies right, who knows how long we can live for?
I feel inspired at night or when evening is approaching. When everything is quite around me and I can reflect on my day and the experiences I had.
A good idea is to write down you thoughts straight away, don’t wait.
When you have a thought you would like to share on your blog, think it thru and write it down before you change your mind or get a new idea.
Sometimes I write just before I sleep. I get so many different thoughts and ideas.
Find out what works best for you.
I need time alone to get my thoughts flowing and I use different experiences, peoples impulses and energy to create something I would like to share.
Your mind can produce something great, if let it run free and give yourself a chance to be creative.
Good Luck!!! 😀