Dating Advice For Men – Why Woman Love Assholes ;)
Do women truly prefer assholes — men who treat them rudely, who act like they could take ‘em or leave ‘em, or who actually do take them… and then leave them? haha 😉
I myself prefer good, true, honest, loving, kind, faithful, funny men— with a badboy, sexy, hot twist – The party junkies and criminal bad boys.. pack your bags! You ain’t wanted here. But a successful man who takes what he wants and knows what he wants – that is sexy as hell, does that make him an asshole? it could be….
And yet we all know women who can’t seem to get excited about anyone but a asshole. So yes, it’s true: Some women want dicks. The bigger question is why.
Think back to your high school days. Now remember the guy who got all the girls. Yeah, him. I’ll bet he was a dick.
High school rewards dicks. Girls dig status. In high school, status comes from having the quickest remark or the most athletic body, or both. The funniest guy in high school is typically hilarious at others’ expense.
The reason girls love status it’s associated with a man’s ability to provide and protect. Just as the toughest guy would have made a great protector in the ancient past—where all human mating psychology comes from—women today are drawn to whoever gets them and their kids/genes to survive. In today’s terms, that means money.
And some assholes have money. They aren’t better employees, but they have no hesitations about putting themselves or their interests forward. And that leads to power!
Dicks are good to alternately fake long-term interest, or pretend they’ve got more money (or degrees, cars, houses) and they don’t..
DICKS probably do get women more easily in casual sex scenarios. But they don’t get or stay married more easily; they aren’t loved more, or longer. Actually, their lives and loves are crappier—not happier. And very few men want to play the field all their lives; men and women are a like, they want lasting, true love.
But dicks often lack what it takes to sustain that. They are less relationship-oriented, less friendly, forgiving, trusting, helpful, warm, caring, cooperative, and sympathetic than non-assholes—precisely the opposite of the kind, loving, loyal heart women require in a mate. Dicks are less well-liked, they have more stress, and they have less happy lives. Basically, some might get more ladies in bed, but they will be dumped often too.
Dicks aren’t into relationships. But nice guys tend to show a woman that they genuinely like and care about her. They take the brave risks of saying that they’re in love, and backing it up with their behavior.
The most attractive thing you can do is to openly admire the person you’re with. Liking leads to liking.
So, nice guys, keep being nice. If you want to change something, you can always ad the good parts of being a dick, the self-confidence, the maanlines, the power, the take what you want kinda attitude and cocky funny jokes – ad it to your nice guy personality 😀 That seems like the perfect combo! Nice guy with a bad boy twist hehe… Good Luck with the ladies. XOXO